Thursday, July 26, 2012
Keep A Conversation
Have you ever found yourself chatting with a woman and the conversation suddenly vanishes? Are you there, trying desperately to find a way to keep the conversation going and your mind goes blank. This is a common problem that happens to 4 out of 5 men. Let's look at what happens and how to correct the situation.
First, let us put a base of understanding. I have directed or presented to a woman and the conversation starts perfectly. What this tells me is that you have the skills to hold a conversation. Second, the conversation fades or dies completely and you're left standing there using questions such interview. Not good, but the fact that you recognize this situation, then you have the skills to correct it.
So why is this? There are two basic reasons why you can not seem to have a conversation:
1. You do not understand what she wants and you're trying to be considered.
2. You've erroneously disqualified, and your goal is unclear.
Women want to have a conversation. They love to talk, but boring and pointless conversations are not interested. Women want to feel emotions, and not just feel them, but these are emotions. The man who can make them feel such strong emotions, is the one that she is going to hold a conversation. This desire is so strong that instead of being called women, they should have been called "feelmales" (pun in English between feelings and women, something like feelings women). They want to feel powerful emotions from men.
How do you see the woman you're talking about? What is your goal to speak to her? Lost interest in it, or just angrily jumped into the fray without any plan?
I see more guys with this problem than any other. They are excellent starting the conversation, but once they have achieved, are diluted because they either lack the courage to go forward or do not know where they want to go. Just do not know how to keep the conversation going. If you talk to her as a friend, do not lose anything because you're not looking for something. If you talk as if she were to rip your clothes later, in a passionate frenzy, well, that's something completely different.
If you find that your conversation is slowing, ask yourself if you want that woman. If not, then it will be easier to keep the conversation because there is no risk. Just talk about whatever you want to talk. This means reclassify it as "just a friend" or "just an acquaintance."
If you conclude that she is someone you would like an appointment, or go on to develop a relationship, then you have to understand what she wants to carry on a conversation. Women want to feel passionately powerful emotions. They want to be attracted to men. If you can make her feel attractive emotions, good emotions, make you feel pleasant, excited, energetic, and fun, then you will feel attracted to you.
The bottom line is that if you have a conversation, you have to know all about her, not you. If you become the man she needs, you want and you can guide the relationship between you and her in the direction you want.
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